Be realistic. Show patience. Engage. And above all, donโt isolate. Those are the pillars of an approach emerging in Pakistan to deal with the fledgling government that is suddenly running the country next door once again โ Afghanistanโs resurgent, often-volatile Taliban.
Pakistan is proposing that the international community develop a road map that leads to diplomatic recognition of the Afghan Taliban โ with incentives if they fulfill its requirements โ and then sit down face to face and talk it out with the group’s leaders.
Foreign Minister Shah Mehmood Qureshi outlined the idea on Wednesday in an interview with The Associated Press (AP) on the sidelines of the UN General Assemblyโs meeting of world leaders.

โIf they live up to those expectations, they would make it easier for themselves, they will get acceptability, which is required for recognition,โ Qureshi told the AP. โAt the same time, the international community has to realise: Whatโs the alternative? What are the options? This is the reality, and can they turn away from this reality?โ
He said Pakistan โis in sync with the international communityโ in wanting to see a peaceful, stable Afghanistan with no space for terrorist elements to increase their foothold, and for the Taliban to ensure โthat Afghan soil is never used again against any country.โ
โBut we are saying, be more realistic in your approach,โ Qureshi said. โTry an innovative way of engaging with them. The way that they were being dealt with has not worked.โ
Expectations from the Taliban leadership could include an inclusive government and assurances for human rights, especially for women and girls, Qureshi said. In turn, he said, the Afghan government might be motivated by receiving development, economic and reconstruction aid to help recover from decades of war.
He urged the US, the International Monetary Fund and other countries that have frozen Afghan government funds to immediately release the money so it can be used โfor promoting normalcy in Afghanistan.โ And he pledged that Pakistan is ready to play a โconstructive, positiveโ role in opening communications channels with the Taliban because it, too, benefits from peace and stability.

This is the second time that the Taliban have ruled Afghanistan. The first time, from 1996 to 2001, ended when they were ousted by a US-led coalition after the 9/11 attacks.
During that rule, Taliban leaders and police barred girls from school and prohibited women from working outside the home or leaving it without a male escort. After they were overthrown, Afghan women still faced challenges in the male-dominated society but increasingly stepped into powerful positions in government and numerous fields.
But when the USย withdrewย its military from Afghanistan last month, the government collapsed and a new generation of the Taliban resurged, taking over almost immediately. In the weeks since, many countries have expressed disappointment that the Talibanโs interim government is not inclusive as its spokesperson had promised.

While the new government has allowed young girls to attend school, it hasย not yet allowedย older girls to return to secondary school, andย most womenย to return to work despite a promise in April that women โcan serve their society in the education, business, health and social fields while maintaining correct … hijab.โ
Pakistan, which shares a long border with Afghanistan, has a long and sometimes conflicted relationship with its neighbour that includes attempts to prevent terrorism there. The Islamabad government has a fundamental vested interest in ensuring that whatever the new Afghanistan offers, it is not a threat to Pakistan.
That, Qureshi says, requires a steady and calibrated approach.
โIt has to be a realistic assessment, a pragmatic view on both sides, and that will set the tone for recognition eventually,โ the minister said. The good news, he said, is that the Taliban are listening, โand they are not insensitive to what is being said by neighbours and the international community.โ
How does he know theyโre listening? He says the interim government, drawn mostly from Afghanistanโs dominant Pashtun ethnic group,ย made some additionsย on Tuesday. It added representatives from the countryโs ethnic minorities โ Tajiks, Uzbeks and Hazaras.
โYes, there are no women yet,โ Qureshi said. โBut let us let the situation evolve.โ
He stressed that the Taliban must make decisions in the coming days and weeks that will enhance their acceptability.

โWhat the international community can do, in my view, is sit together and work out a roadmap,โ Qureshi said. โAnd if they fulfill those expectations, this is what the international community can do to help them stabilise their economy. This is the humanitarian assistance that can be provided. This is how they can help rebuild Afghanistan, reconstruction and so on and so forth.โ
He added: โWith this roadmap ahead, I think an international engagement can be more productive.โ
On Wednesday night, UN Secretary-General Antonio Guterres said after a meeting of the five permanent members of the UN Security Council that all five nations โ the US, China, Britain, Russia and France โ want โan Afghanistan at peace, stable, where humanitarian aid can be distributed without problems or discrimination.โ
He also described a hoped-for โAfghanistan where the rights of women and girls are respected, an Afghanistan that wonโt be a sanctuary for terrorism, an Afghanistan where we have an inclusive government representing the different sectors of the population.โ
Qureshi said there are different forums where the international community can work out the best way to approach the situation. In the meantime, he asserted, things seem to be stabilising. Less than six weeks after the Talibanย seized powerย on August 15, he said, Pakistan has received information that the law-and-order situation has improved, fighting has stopped and many internally displaced Afghans are going home.

โThatโs a positive sign,โ Qureshi said.
He said Pakistan hasnโt seen a new influx of Afghan refugees โ a sensitive issue for Pakistanis, who are highly motivated to prevent it. A humanitarian crisis, a foundering economy and workers who return to jobs and school but arenโt getting salaries and donโt have money could cause Afghans to flee across the porous border into Pakistan, which has suffered economically from such arrivals over decades of conflict.
Qureshi prescribed patience and realism. After all, he says, every previous attempt to stabilise Afghanistan has failed, so donโt expect new efforts to produce immediate success with the Taliban. If the US and its allies โcould not convince them or eliminate them in two decades, how will you do it in the next two months or the next two years?โ he wondered.

Asked whether he had a prediction of what Afghanistan might be like in six months, Qureshi turned the question back on his AP interviewer, replying: โCan you guarantee me US behavior over the next six months?โ

