Media personality Abbie Chatfield has opened up about a financial dilemma as her boyfriend, musician Adam Hyde, prepares to move into her home.
In a recent TikTok video, the 29-year-old podcaster and reality TV star sought advice from her followers on how to fairly split expenses, given that she owns the $1.75 million apartment in Sydney’s Tamarama and a $1.4 million property in Byron Bay.
“Adam’s moving in on Sunday. I own this apartment, and I’m trying to figure out how to split costs or if he should pay rent,” she shared in the video.
Balancing Finances & Independence
Abbie explained that while the couple earns similar incomes, her concerns stem from past experiences of women being financially exploited in relationships.
According to the Daily Mail, she has taken steps to protect her financial independence, including a binding financial agreement and expectations for Adam to contribute to rent, utilities, and household expenses, such as hiring a cleaner.
However, she remains uncertain about how much rent to charge, debating whether to base it on market rates for a room in the area.
Public Reactions & Suggestions
The post sparked widespread discussion among her followers, with many offering personal experiences and financial strategies, according to the outlet.
- Some suggested Adam should pay market rent.
- Others recommended a contribution model that could later translate into shared equity.
Abbie dismissed the idea of Adam covering all household costs, emphasizing her desire to maintain financial autonomy:
“I’d feel deeply uncomfortable having a man control the finances,” she stated.
A New Chapter for the Couple
The couple, who have been dating for six months, previously confirmed their cohabitation plans on Abbie’s podcast, It’s A Lot.
As they take this next step, Abbie continues to seek a fair and practical approach to managing their finances while prioritizing her independence.
